Left-handed

How parents can support their left-handed child

Text last updated: 2025-08-26

A good start with a left hand

Does your child prefer the left hand? That's absolutely okay! No need to worry: this is nothing out of the ordinary. Around one in ten people are left-handed from birth. Your child should be free to choose what they do with which hand. To make it easier for your left-handed child to start school, you can provide targeted support.

What does it mean when our child writes with their left hand?

Left-handedness is congenital. It means that the right side of the brain is more pronounced. Scientific studies have long since shown that left-handedness says nothing about a child's talent or ability. Your child only prefers to carry out activities that require a lot of speed, strength or skill with their left hand.

However, retraining would have fatal consequences! If the weaker half of the brain, in this case the left, has to take on more work, this can lead to excessive demands and developmental disorders. This must be avoided at all costs. For right-handed people, it is exactly the opposite: retraining on the left would have the same negative consequences.

How can we best support our child?

As a right-handed parent, it is often difficult to empathize with a left-handed child: How do I explain the correct pencil position and how to use scissors? Demonstration does not work. Textbook publishers and manufacturers of educational materials have information and accompanying material available for parents. In addition to special school materials, there are also many utensils that make it easier for your left-handed child: from children's cutlery to paring knives, carving knives to computer keyboards and mice. Even musical instruments specially designed for left-handed children are now available from specialist retailers.

Helpful tips for starting school

The rule of the "right" and the "wrong" hand no longer applies at school. Scientifically speaking, both hands are "right" for writing. Therefore, if your child has the right disposition, he or she should definitely write with the left hand from the start and not feel that you are worried about it. Left-handedness should also never make your child feel "wrong" or "clumsy". However, as children do not like to stand out, it is important to make sure that your child does not try to retrain themselves to be right-handed by imitating you.

These tips will make starting school easier:

  • Inform the teacher in advance about your child's left-handedness.
  • When arranging the seating, the teacher should ensure that your left-handed child sits on the left at the table and a right-handed child on the right. This way, the children do not get in each other's way when writing.
  • Provide materials specially designed for left-handers, triangular pencils or pencil sharpeners or a sharpener for left-handed cutting
  • A left-handed ruler shows numbers from right to left. This makes measuring and correct underlining easier
  • A writing pad for left-handed children helps to align the stapling position. The writing pad is on top with the stapling. This way, the writing hand is not always on the spiral binding
  • Discuss with the teacher whether a rollerball pen can be purchased instead of a fountain pen.

How to support your child at home

  • At the workstation for homework, make sure there is enough freedom of movement for the left arm. The light should also come from the right.
  • Help your child to slide the exercise book to the bottom right edge. This way, your child can keep their writing hand relaxed and won't smudge their writing later with the fountain pen or rollerball. It also makes it easier for them to see what they have written. A special writing pad helps to find the right position.
  • Promote a relaxed writing posture for your child: The left hand rests on the side edge and the right hand holds the notebook or page firmly.
  • In early lessons, children are often asked to copy letters that are prescribed at the beginning of the line. Support your child here by writing the corresponding letter at the right end of the line. This makes it easier for your child to see what to write.
  • Think about breaks for your child and yourself!

My child uses both hands alternately: And now?

Perhaps your child has not yet decided which hand is better for them. This can also happen. Some children change their "handedness" back and forth several times in the first few years of life. The issue is usually resolved by the age of five, but it can sometimes take longer. By the time they start school, it should be clear which hand is their writing hand. If necessary, consult your pediatrician about this. If necessary, handedness can be clarified using special tests. This is important so that your child can learn to write in a relaxed and relaxed manner right from the start.

Where can we find help and advice?

If you have specific questions at school, it is best to speak directly to the teacher. Elementary school teachers usually have a lot of experience with this topic and can give you helpful advice.

If you have any problems with left-handedness, contact your pediatrician's practice. The practice will usually prescribe occupational therapy. There, tests can be carried out to determine whether your child tends to be more left- or right-handed. If necessary, trained specialists will help your child to use the identified hand regularly in future.

Special writing materials for left-handed children can be found from well-known school book publishers or in local stationery stores.

Further information on left-handedness can be found on the website of the Federal Institute of Public Health (BIÖG) at www.kindergesundheit-info.de

The "Erste deutsche Beratungs- und Informationsstelle für Linkshänder und umgeschulte Linkshänder e.V." offers scientific information on left-handedness in childhood, work and leisure.