Reading with young children

Strengthen the bond when reading together

Text last updated: 2025-08-04

Early support for young children through reading aloud

Do you regularly take time to read aloud and tell stories with your child? Especially nowadays, when we are all rushing through our days, reading aloud is a wonderfully relaxing oasis of calm for young and old. Reading aloud means cuddling together, giving attention and, for parents, taking a short break. Even the youngest children quickly come to look forward to reading aloud. And incidentally, this feel-good time has also been proven to be invaluable for your child's mental and social development: It promotes both imagination and language development. Scientists agree that reading aloud to children can intensively promote later social and academic learning.

Why parents should read to the very youngest children

"Should I really be reading to my baby? He doesn't even understand me yet!" You may have already asked yourself this question. The answer is: Yes! - Scientists have proven the enormous benefits that babies from the age of three months have from being read to. Babies recognize the soothing voices of their parents and feel secure when they listen. Of course, it makes little sense to read the story of Pippi Longstocking to a one-year-old child. However, the book market offers a large selection of illustrated books made of robust material for even the youngest children.

The positive effects of reading aloud together are manifold:

  • Reading aloud strengthens the personality: A recent study by Stiftung Lesen shows that even the youngest children are encouraged and strengthened in their development by reading aloud.
  • Reading aloud deepens the relationship between parent and child. The time spent together is perceived by children as a safe, loving space and is happily accepted.
  • Reading aloud promotes language development. When the child begins to speak, the vocabulary is intensively expanded by looking at suitable books together and asking questions about them.
  • Reading aloud supports social development. Listening, asking questions and putting yourself in the shoes of characters helps to develop empathy.
  • Reading aloud inspires the imagination and has a positive effect on the development of creativity. The stories gradually create their own pictures in their heads. Children want to draw, build or invent their own little stories.
  • Reading aloud imparts knowledge. Young children learn a lot about the world around them by reading stories aloud.
  • Reading aloud prepares children for a successful start to school. School is still a long way off, but studies have shown that children who have been read to since they were babies learn to read and write more easily.

We have a few tips for you to make reading aloud time a feel-good time together:

Make yourself comfortable:

Reading likes cozy places: In a homely place and snuggled up together, reading time becomes a wonderful relaxation time for young and old alike.

Don't get distracted: Try to create a quiet zone for reading time: without distractions from the radio, TV and cell phone.

Children love rituals

There are many times during the day that are suitable for reading aloud. Be it in the evening before bedtime or to ring in the afternoon nap. You will see that reading aloud quickly develops into a cherished ritual. Your child will probably become more and more curious and enjoy picking up a book outside of reading aloud together.

Go on a journey of discovery together

The youngest bookworms often find it difficult to concentrate on listening for long periods of time. So keep telling stories freely and discover together what there is to see and experience in the book.

"Plan B" is part of the program

Little children like to ramble on and tell their own "stories" or ask questions in the middle of the program. That's okay and a good thing. Let yourself be taken on a journey of thought and immerse yourself in conversation with your child. At some point, you will come back to the story from the book.

Lively stories make you want more

The bear can be read grumpily, while the mouse is given a squeaky voice. Depending on the mood you want to create, you can read in a whisper or particularly loudly. You can also make faces, roll your eyes and gesticulate wildly. Try out what suits you and the story. You'll see how much fun you both have with it!

Good books for little people - what is suitable?

The younger your child is, the simpler the book should be. Books made of fabric, thick cardboard or even plastic are best suited for the very youngest children. The advantage of these books is that they are more robust. They can also be handled and "read" by a small child without breaking.

There are plenty of classic children's books for children aged 2 and over. In addition, "hidden object books" are very popular in this age group. These are large-format picture books without text with lots of different things to discover. Just browse through the bookstores and let yourself be inspired. Specialist retailers will also be able to give you qualified advice. Or you can get tips online on the pages of Stiftung Lesen.

Tips for browsing

Many pediatricians offer the "Lesestart 1-2-3" set from Stiftung Lesen, which is funded by the Federal Ministry of Education and Research, for U6 and U7. It contains a picture book and a brochure for parents. Information on which practices are taking part in this campaign and further tips can be found on the internet portal "Lesestart 1-2-3".

Tips for reading aloud can be found on YouTube: The short films from "Lesestart - Drei Meilensteile für das Lesen" show how you can fit reading aloud into your busy everyday life.

The website of the Reading Foundation offers lots of suggestions for reading aloud. Here you can find reading tips, regular reading recommendations and activity ideas for different age groups.

The Reading Foundation provides detailed information on why reading is so important right from the start.

The Reading Aloud Monitor is used by Stiftung Lesen to investigate the state of reading aloud in Germany. The current 2022 study can be viewed online.

You can find the film "Anyone can read aloud" on YouTube from "Lesestart - Drei Meilensteile für das Lesen".

The internet portal www.einfachvorlesen.de offers new free reading aloud fun every week for children aged 3 and over. "einfach vorlesen" is also available as an app in the App Store and on Google Play.

You can also listen to our parent podcast Familienbande here on the Familienportal.NRW on the subject of "Reading".

These tips will help you with the question of how to turn reading time into feel-good time together.