Requirements for Adoption
The best interests of the child are the top priority in an adoption
The Youth Welfare Office or a recognized adoption agency is responsible for placing a child for adoption. Because the well-being of the child is the top priority for these professionals, the placement process is preceded by a thorough review. The process requires patience and places high demands on prospective adoptive parents. This article provides information on the requirements that must be met and the factors prospective adoptive parents should consider.
Who can adopt a child?
Anyone who wishes to adopt a child must have full legal capacity. Couples who wish to adopt a child should be married to each other. It goes without saying that the relationship should be harmonious and intact. After all, the adopted child should have a safe and stable home.
From a purely legal standpoint, single applicants may also adopt a child. This requires a particularly thorough assessment of the child’s best interests. An adoption is more likely to be approved, for example, if a meaningful relationship with the child already exists or if there is a family relationship.
If the couple is unmarried, only one partner may adopt the child. The other partner may then adopt the child, if applicable, through a successive adoption.
Since 2017, same-sex couples have also been allowed to adopt children jointly. The prerequisite is that they are married and that they both equally meet all other requirements. Previously, this was only possible for registered domestic partners through a successive adoption.
What Prospective Adoptive Parents Should Know Beforehand
The placement process can be lengthy. It requires patience and empathy from both professionals and applicants. They should also be aware that a longer waiting period does not automatically increase the chances of a successful placement, since in Germany there are a large number of applicants for every child seeking placement.
What requirements must be met for an adoption?
As part of the adoption process, the responsible social worker conducts several in-person interviews and at least one home visit. The interviews focus on questions about the couple’s own childhoods and families, their relationship, how they cope with involuntary childlessness, and their motivation for adoption. Personal and shared future goals, parenting philosophies, and social and economic circumstances are also evaluated. The following criteria are part of the assessment of suitability for adoption:
What is the suitability report?
The adoption agency summarizes the results of the applicants’ suitability assessment in a document known as a suitability report. This report may be shared with other agencies involved in the adoption process. If the professionals determine that the applicants are not suitable, they will be informed of the negative result in a personal meeting.
Where can we find help and advice?
You can obtain information, guidance, and advice on the options, prospects, and requirements for adoption from adoption agencies in Germany.
You can contact the following agencies, among others:
- Adoption agencies of the Youth Welfare Office: Using the Family Guide on Familienportal.NRW, you can quickly and easily find the Youth Welfare Office responsible for your area.
- Catholic-run adoption services
- Protestant-affiliated adoption service
- Approved International Adoption Agencies
Under no circumstances should you use the services of an unrecognized adoption agency—neither in Germany nor in the child’s home country. Without the support of authorized agencies, an adoption is generally not recognized in Germany and is also prohibited. In this case, you face serious legal and financial consequences, including charges of complicity in child trafficking.