Association of Single Mothers and Fathers North Rhine-Westphalia (VAMV NRW)

The lobby for single parents

Text last updated: 2025-08-14

Together for strong families

Around 500,000 single mothers and fathers live in North Rhine-Westphalia. For many of them, living alone with a child poses particular challenges, especially in terms of financial security and balancing work and family life. The Verband allein erziehender Mütter und Väter Nordrhein-Westfalen e. V. (VAMV NRW) represents the interests of single parents and stands up for their concerns and rights. It is the point of contact in the state for questions about living alone with a child or children.

The Familienportal.NRW asked VAMV NRW to briefly introduce its work, goals and commitment.

What goals does VAMV NRW pursue?

"Together for strong families": As the only member association, we have been representing the interests of the 500,000 single parents in NRW towards the state, politics and society since 1976. Together, we work towards our goal: equality for single parents with all other family forms. We want to end the disadvantages faced by single parents: on the labor market, in tax, social and education policy as well as in family law.

Who is the association addressing?

For the VAMV, "single parent" means bearing the main responsibility for a child in the household. This includes both the responsibility for unpaid care work in everyday life and often the sole responsibility for the family's financial security.

This type of family can be very diverse: Being a single parent can mean being entirely responsible for children, receiving less or also a lot of support from the other parent or other people.

How are single parents supported?

We are the online contact point in NRW for questions about separation and living alone with a child. Our help finder connects single parents and parents in separation to suitable services and advice centers on site. On our Instagram channel @vamvnrw and at events, we offer information, tips and an exchange of ideas within the community. We are a membership association: single parents have the opportunity to become active (e.g. in press work, studies or campaigns).

What are the three most pressing issues at the moment?

VAMV has been around for 50 years in NRW. The issues have hardly changed.

  1. For single parents, it is always about securing their livelihood, i.e. childcare, work and benefits that they can apply for.
  2. In addition, especially during the separation period, there is the issue of conflicts and how these can be resolved in court or through counseling.
  3. As a lobby association, the third issue that is important to our members is that social and legal disadvantages for single parents are eliminated.

Why is it worth getting involved in the association's work?

You can get involved with VAMV NRW without being a member. We regularly share calls for participation in press inquiries, studies or campaigns. This allows single parents to get involved in political and social events and represent their interests themselves. As a member, you can have a say in which topics we work on and, above all, which demands we use to shape our lobbying work.

Contact persons

Nicola Stroop
Board of Directors VAMV NRW

Ute Zimmermann
Landesfachstelle Alleinerziehende

Telephone: 0201 82774-70

Verband allein erziehender Mütter und Väter Nordrhein-Westfalen e. V. (VAMV NRW)

If you are interested or have any questions, please contact:

VAMV NRW
Rellinghauser Str. 18
45128 Essen

Phone: 0201 82774-70
info@vamv-nrw.de
www.vamv-nrw.de

Instagram: vamvnrw

With the Familiendialog.NRW for single parents, the North Rhine-Westphalian Ministry of Family Affairs created a space for exchange, co-design and mutual support on March 29, 2025.

You can find information about the North Rhine-Westphalia Family Working Group (LAG Famille NRW) here: