Eating disorders

Too fat? Too thin? Always unhappy with your weight?

Text last updated: 2025-08-12

Too fat? Too thin? Always unhappy with your weight?

Do your thoughts constantly revolve around food? Do you feel uncomfortable in your body or unhappy with your weight and figure? Maybe you sometimes wonder if your eating habits are healthy? If you think something is wrong, get help. The sooner the better. Here you can find out where to turn.

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What are eating disorders?

Eating disorders are a serious illness. They can have many triggers and often occur as early as puberty. The most common eating disorders are anorexia (anorexia nervosa), bulimia (binge eating disorder) and binge eating. However, mixed forms are also common.


Do I have an eating disorder?

Only doctors or psychotherapists can make a reliable diagnosis. For an initial self-assessment, the following warning signs indicate an eating disorder:

  • When I look in the mirror, I feel too fat.
  • I am dissatisfied with myself and often unhappy
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  • I am afraid of eating too much and gaining weight
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  • I am constantly thinking about my appearance, my figure and my weight.
  • I am constantly checking my weight
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  • I react immediately if I gain a few grams
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  • I have a guilty conscience when I eat sweet or fatty foods
  • I think about food all the time.
  • I divide food into allowed and forbidden foods.
  • I can't tell if I'm hungry or full.
  • I often eat out of frustration, boredom, disappointment or sadness.
  • I often lose control over the amount of food I eat
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    You can take a self-test on the psychenet website. The questions can give you a clue as to whether you have an eating disorder.

    Are eating disorders dangerous for me?

    Yes, eating disorders have very serious consequences. Constant starvation leads to severe nutrient deficiencies. Being severely overweight is also unhealthy. Both can cause permanent damage to your body: This includes blood pressure disorders, fainting, hormonal imbalances, menstrual cycle disorders and even the absence of menstruation in girls, permanently damaged organs and depression.


    How do I get out of an eating disorder?

    Only very few people manage to get out of an eating disorder on their own. That's why it's so important to get help as early as possible in order to come out of the closet. The sooner you admit to a possible eating disorder and start therapy, the better your chances of recovery.


    Where can I find help?

    The first step is to confide in someone to find out if you are suffering from an eating disorder. If you don't want to talk to your parents or another trusted person about the issue, it's best to contact a special counseling center. Here you will meet trained professionals with whom you can talk openly and without bias about your difficulties. You can also do this online and anonymously on the internet. Counseling is free of charge and completely confidential.

    You can obtain information and initial advice from the information hotline on eating disorders run by the Federal Institute of Public Health (BIÖG). You can reach the advice line on 0221 892031 (Mondays to Thursdays from 10 am to 10 pm, Fridays to Sundays from 10 am to 6 pm).

    The online counseling center search of the Federal Institute of Public Health (BIÖG) will lead you directly to a counseling center for eating disorders near your home.

    You can find an overview of the existing networks and their respective contact persons on the website of the NRW State Coordination Office for Eating Disorders.

    You can also contact the number against grief. Specially trained experts will take time for you. They will advise you 100% confidentially. Call 116 111 free of charge or contact the online advice service by email.

    The women's advice centers in North Rhine-Westphalia advise girls and young women free of charge and in a protected environment. You can find an overview of women's advice centers in NRW here.

    On the website of the Ministry of Labor, Health and Social Affairs you will find information and further links on the subject of eating disorders.

    Further information can be found on the eating disorders website of the Federal Institute of Public Health (BIÖG)

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    The health portal "clever-gesund-info.de" is aimed directly at children and young people and offers lots of information and tips on the topics of "healthy eating and weight".