Eating Disorders

Too fat? Too thin? Always unhappy with your weight?

Text last updated: 2026-08-27

Too fat? Too thin? Always unhappy with your weight?

Are your thoughts constantly focused on food? Do you feel uncomfortable in your own body, or are you unhappy with your weight and figure? Maybe you sometimes wonder if your eating habits are healthy? If you think something isn’t right, get help. The sooner, the better. Here’s where you can turn for help.

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What are eating disorders?

Eating disorders are serious illnesses. They can have many triggers and often begin during puberty. The most common eating disorders are anorexia (anorexia nervosa), bulimia (binge-purge disorder), and binge eating disorder. However, mixed forms are also common.


Do I have an eating disorder?

Only doctors or psychotherapists can make a reliable diagnosis. For an initial self-assessment, the following warning signs may indicate an eating disorder:

  • When I look in the mirror, I feel too fat.
  • I’m dissatisfied with myself and often unhappy.
  • I’m afraid of eating too much and gaining weight.
  • I constantly think about my appearance, my figure, and my weight.
  • I constantly check my weight.
  • If I gain a few grams, I react to it immediately.
  • I feel guilty when I eat sweet or fatty foods.
  • I think about food all the time.
  • I categorize foods into “allowed” and “forbidden.”
  • I can’t tell if I’m hungry or full.
  • I often eat out of frustration, boredom, disappointment, or sadness.
  • I often lose control over how much I eat.

On the psychenet website, you can take a self-assessment. The questions can give you an idea of whether you have an eating disorder.


Are eating disorders dangerous for me?

Yes, eating disorders have very serious consequences. Constant starvation leads to severe nutrient deficiencies. Being severely overweight is also unhealthy. Both can cause lasting damage to your body: These include, among other things, high blood pressure, fainting, hormonal imbalances, menstrual irregularities—including the absence of menstruation in girls—permanent organ damage, and depression.


How do I recover from an eating disorder?

Very few people with an eating disorder are able to recover on their own. That’s why it’s absolutely essential that you seek help as early as possible to break the cycle of secrecy. The sooner you acknowledge that you may have an eating disorder and begin therapy, the better your chances of recovery.


Where can I find help?

The first step is to confide in someone to find out if you have an eating disorder. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to your parents or someone else you trust about this, it’s best to reach out to a specialized counseling center. There, you’ll meet trained professionals with whom you can talk openly and without judgment about your difficulties. You can also do this online and anonymously. The counseling is free for you and completely confidential.

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The Federal Institute for Public Health (BIÖG) eating disorder helpline provides information and an initial consultation. You can reach the counseling service at 0221 892031 (Monday through Thursday from 10 a.m. to 10 p.m., Friday through Sunday from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m.).

The Federal Institute for Public Health (BIÖG)’s online counseling center search tool directs you to an eating disorder counseling center near where you live.

You can find an overview of the existing networks and their respective contacts on the website of the North Rhine-Westphalia State Coordination Office for Eating Disorders.

You can also contact "Nummer gegen Kummer." Specially trained professionals will take the time to help you. They will advise you with 100 percent confidentiality. Call toll-free at 116 111 or contact the online counseling service by email.

Women's counseling centers in North Rhine-Westphalia offer free counseling to girls and young women in a safe and confidential environment. Here you'll find an overview of women's counseling centers in NRW.

On the website of the Ministry of Labor, Health, and Social Affairs, you'll find information and related links on eating disorders.

The Federal Institute for Public Health (BIÖG) offers detailed information on eating disorders on its website.

The health portal “clever-gesund-info.de” is aimed directly at children and teens and offers a wealth of information and tips on “healthy eating and weight.”